Why, when people argue, they shout at each other

Once the teacher asked his students:

- Why, when people argue, they shout at each other?

- Because they lose peace of mind, – said one.

- But why  shout when the other person is close to you – said the teacher. – Can’t you talk quiet? Why shout when you’re angry?

Students offered their answers, but none of them was accepted by the teacher. At the end, he explained:

- When people are unhappy with each other and quarreling, their hearts are becoming alienated. In order to cover the distance and hear each other, they have to shout. The stronger they get angry, the louder their shout.

 - What happens when people fall in love? They do not shout, however, they speak softly… because their hearts are very close, and the distance between them is very small. And what happens when fall in love even more? – continued teacher. – They do not speak, only whisper and become even closer in their love.

At the end, they even do not need whispering. They just look at each other and understand everything without words. This happens only between two loving people.

So, when arguing, do not let your hearts go away from each other, do not say the words, which further increases the distance between you. Because a day may come when the distance becomes so large, that you will not find a way back.

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!  LOVE AND BE LOVED NOT ONLY TODAY BUT EVERY DAY! It’s a great gift from God – to love! And it’s a great blessing from God – to be loved!